Can a group of Idaho writers help bring respect and civility to a country polluted by vitriol and criticism? Yes, they can. We proved it over the weekend.
During the past 12 years, I have organized more than 20 writer’s retreats and workshops. Our recent workshop focused on “Your Journey is Your Story,” and the participants were prompted to share personal experiences that could shape a future blog or memoir. The workshop included a “Music as Muse” exercise as I played different songs and gave writing prompts.
The last music played was Peacemaker by Irish singer Máire (Moya) Brennan. The song included the Prayer of St. Francis of Assisi with the singer’s young son providing words in Irish Gaelic. The words in the original prayer include the phrase “make me an instrument of your peace.” After the music exercise, participants read their works aloud to the group.
The first writer read her story about being thrilled to take her daughters to an event to hear former First Lady Michelle Obama. The writer is scheduled to travel to Seattle in May to hear Hillary Clinton.
Another writer spoke about praying and seeing the face of Jesus.
Other writers included a former Republican state representative who read about patriotism, a mother who spoke and sang about her love for her children, a woman escaping sexual abuse, a student who wrote about surviving after World War III, a humorous memory of a departed relative, and a kind grandmother who shared the pain of being estranged by an adult son. Every speaker was respected and appreciated. There was no drama, no criticism, and no insults.
If ten people from various backgrounds and from ages 12 to 72 can come together to a writing workshop in Meridian, Idaho and value opposite opinions, others can do it, too.
Over the past two years, I’ve winced at the hateful, bitter comments written by associates on social media. These continuing assaults have changed nothing nor have they improved the public discourse. I appreciate spirited debate and have posted several satirical memes about politics, but I’ve never personally attacked anyone. In my opinion, the atmosphere is more polluted with hostile verbal garbage than with plastic bags.
I’m traveling to Las Vegas soon to present a similar writing workshop using music as motivation and inspiration. It’s my goal to inspire attendees, ten people at a time, to use their words, laptops, and pens as instruments of peace.
Ruth Knox says
A worthy goal. Looking forward to a whole day next weekend in Vegas where I don’t have to hear (or overhear) anything about politics. How refreshing!
Elaine Ambrose says
Ruth, I am so eager to see you again. I love your writing and your gentle spirit. See you soon!
Donna says
I am so excited to meet you!! Welcome to Las Vegas!!
Mary says
Elaine, this is such a wonderful, uplifting post. I have been thinking about this very thing since yesterday. I was so moved by everyone’s very different story. I refuse to allow political beliefs from keeping me from getting to know good people like those I shared time with at the writing workshop. I hope they feel the same 🙂
Elaine Ambrose says
Yes, Mary, you are so correct. Our stories connect us as humans. In my opinion, outside distractions and negative forces are tearing us apart. Write and tell your truth. I respect your opinions, and I’m grateful we are friends.
Mary Lovstad says
Thanks, Elaine for doing your part in trying to bring people together. It is so hard to talk about anything these days in a sensible way — we need more of bringing people face to face to see each other as human instead of a “side”.
Elaine Ambrose says
Thanks, Mary. I so agree with you.
Bryce Warden says
A noble goal, best of luck!
Elaine Ambrose says
Indeed, Bryce. I keep trying.
Elaine Ambrose says
Thanks, Bryce. We keep trying!
Haralee says
Great themes. Wishing you continued success!!
Elaine Ambrose says
Thanks, Haralee. We’re not giving up, are we?
Doreen Mcgettigan says
You are doing a fabulous job of bringing people together. You are so right, all the hate and vitriol has done nothing at all other than divide us further. So frustrating and sad.
Have a wonderful time in Vegas!
Elaine Ambrose says
Thanks, Doreen. We’ll have a splendid workshop. I don’t gamble so there won’t be any salacious rumors…
Rebecca Forstadt Olkowski says
I love that such a diverse group can get along and create. Sounds like fun.
Elaine Ambrose says
Rebecca, I’m getting too old to waste time with drama. It’s encouraging to experience a positive time with a group of people with opposite opinions.