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Announcing Normal Chromosome Awareness Month

October 3, 2016 By Elaine Ambrose

 

Photo by www.Shadylanestudios.com
Photo by www.Shadylanestudios.com

October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month, but instead of being more aware of those who have one extra chromosome, let’s imagine if those with Down syndrome considered the perceived handicap of those with no chromosome genetic issues. The conversation between children named Marcus and Sally might be interesting.

“Hey, Marcus. Did you know that Down syndrome occurs in one out of every 691 births? There are more than 400,000 of us in the United States, but that means millions of people don’t have the syndrome? How can we help them?”

“Well, Sally, I hope they’re not too sad about their affliction. I know that having Down syndrome makes me more empathetic to others, and I’m generally a happier person. Sometimes it’s frustrating because I’m slower than they are, but maybe they’re too fast. And, I can’t learn as much as they do, but I still know a lot of things. And, I don’t look the same as they do, but I’m still cute.”

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“I’ll try and be more understanding of people without Down syndrome,” Marcus said. “Maybe we should spend some time with them and get to know them.”

“I’d love that,” Sally said. “I’ve always wanted to know how they learned to walk and talk so easily. I really struggled with those abilities. I’ll ask them how they did it.”

Marcus and Sally hugged, giggled, and then sneaked into the kitchen for a snack. While munching on some raisins and apples, they continued their analysis.

“I have an idea! Let’s organize a Normal Chromosome Awareness Month,” Sally says. “We can try and understand why many of them are so worried and busy. They’re always running around without taking any time to laugh at a dancing goat or sing a song out loud or hug someone until they gasp.”

“That’s a great suggestion,” said Marcus. “The world needs to be educated why most people with normal chromosomes are so tall they don’t see us at all, or they act irritated if we’re around. Maybe that missing chromosome contained some ability to be gentle. It’s too bad they don’t have it.”

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Marcus and Sally finished their snacks and scrambled into the yard to play. After a few minutes, they sat in the shade and continued their conversation.

“Maybe we should ask why they work so hard at jobs they don’t like,” Marcus said. “I know many people with Down syndrome who are excited to learn how to work and have developed skills that make them productive. People with Downs syndrome used to be placed in institutions, but now we can be positive members of society. We can learn to read and write, just like other kids. We have a lot to teach those who are limited with normal chromosomes.”

“I’ll organize a walk so we can show the public how to recognize people with normal chromosomes,” Sally said. “We’ll end with a picnic in the park and play together, free from labels and discrimination.”

“Let’s do it,” said Marcus. “Let’s schedule it for Election Day. I’ve heard that most of the people with normal chromosomes are angry about politics, and half of them will be mad because of who wins the race.”

“Oh, that’s so silly!” Sally said. “Yes, they need our help. Let’s plan an event, and everyone will be encouraged to be happy.”

Sally and Marcus made a pinky promise to create the awareness month. Millions of people were depending upon them.

(Note: For information about the Treasure Valley Down Syndrome Association and the upcoming Buddy Walk, research click here.)

My personal Joy Adviser.
My personal Joy Adviser.

 

 

Filed Under: blog Tagged With: #Buddy Walk, #Down Syndrome, chromosomes

Midlife Cabernet: My Grandkid has More Chromosomes than Yours

April 21, 2014 By Elaine Ambrose

In January of 2009, a woman in California gave birth to eight children, giving her a total of 14 healthy kids. She was single, unemployed, living with her parents, and later she received income by filming a pornography video and taking welfare. The following January my daughter gave birth to a precious baby girl who has Down syndrome. Because I have human frailties, my first reaction was to cry and then curse the Octomom.

My angst was soothed when I held my tiny granddaughter, careful not to disturb the various tubes and monitors covering her body in the incubator at the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit. I’ve never wallowed in the life-is-not-fair pity party, but I was confused about the unknown: Why did this happen? How do we help? What is her future? What about my daughter?

Almost four years after the initial shock, the extended family now is convinced that this little bundle of funny faces, squawking noises, and death-grip hugs has much to teach us about love and life. And she answered my worried questions: It happened because an extra chromosome appeared in the early stages of fetal development. We can help by loving her and offering to help her parents. Her future is better than if she had been born 50 years ago and institutionalized. And, her mother outshines Wonder Woman.

Uneducated and insecure people reveal their prejudices when they ridicule someone with Down syndrome. When I’m with Sweetie Pie, sometimes I get “the look of pity” from others or the recognizable sigh of “I’m thankful that didn’t happen to me.” Because of Sweetie Pie, I have learned that ignorance and cruelty are bigger handicaps than a little extra chromosome. Any pity should be given to the 14 children in California and their irresponsible, incompetent mother.

It’s not all hugs and kisses. Sweetie Pie has developmental challenges that other toddlers don’t experience. She only recently learned to walk and has a limited vocabulary. Some children with Down syndrome aren’t toilet trained until they are 8-years-old, and other siblings must adapt to the family’s schedules. But Sweetie Pie was born with her parent’s tenacity and her own unique strength. She is destined to amaze all of us.

We have a photograph of my daughter with her two daughters. She is holding her newborn baby, still wearing oxygen tubes, as the 2-year-old stands beside them. My daughter looks into the distance, and her gaze reflects all the emotions of a dedicated woman. This mother will never degrade herself as the Octomom did to support her children, but she will fight like a warrior to protect and raise them. With the help of a good husband, she is the strength, the passion, and the force that make everything work. She is awesome.

October is Down Syndrome Awareness Month. Our family is walking with Sweetie Pie in the Buddy Walk in downtown Boise. Drivers shouldn’t be irritated as we block busy intersections, and they should wave and celebrate as little ones with almond-shaped eyes and braces on their legs take another concentrated step toward independence. They are worthy of respect. They are worthy of life.

Today’s blog was fueled by a 2009 Cain Concept red wine from Napa Valley. Named The Benchland, this delicious blend offers a splendid combination of cabernet sauvignon, merlot, cabernet franc, and petit verdot. It’s complex and complicated – much like life – and proves that goodness comes from having more than one kind of grape in the batch.

Filed Under: blog Tagged With: #Buddy Walk, #Down Syndrome, #prejudice

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